One step at a time. One day at a time. This is the advice they always give us. Time, though, is not necessarily linear. It may not even be circular. Some people argue that all moments of time exist simultaneously. I offer youthis perspective in the hope that it will help you relax about a matter that has been lately preoccupying you greatly. You want something to happen as soon as possible. It can and will happen, though as soon as possible. However, that may not be quite as soon as you would like.